Monthly Archives: October 2013

before midnight


women are really complicated.  even I myself don’t understand them.  why we sometimes complicate simple things?  why we just love to analyze everything? and so many other things that makes a woman complicated.  last night my roommate and I watched a movie entitled “before midnight”.  in that movie you can reallly see how a woman turns a simple topic into a big fight.  on the otherhand, despite a woman’s sillyness and craziness, there is really that one man who can really put up for that one woman’s bitchiness and selfishness.

there is no such thing as a perfect girl.  there aren’t also a perfect man.  but there is always that one person who is perfect for you.  who can put up with your craziness and shortcomings.  all we have to do is to see that, to just focus with that instead of looking for what is lacking with that person to someone else.  I’m not saying that you have to always compromise because it takes two to tango, as we say.  the other person should also realize your worth.  we should also learn to love ourselves first. you can’t really love a person if you don’t love yourself.  what I’m saying is, try to see the whole picture first before jumping into a conclusion that the person you are with isn’t the right person for you when all you did was to count all the things that he lacks.  be grateful.  love truly and stop being selfish.